Does He Love Me? 6 Clues He’s Getting Ready to Say the “L” Word

Have you been involved in a relationship long enough to start wondering when he's going to say “L” word?

...making it ok for you to say the "L" word... 

Maybe you've tried dropping little hints or suggestions to get him to say it, but the truth is that he won’t unless he is really ready.

On the other hand, when he IS ready, he will start to drop some very important clues to test the "L" waters with you.

Here are some clues to help you answer "Does he love me?" (before he says it). You don’t need all of them to know if he loves you or not—every man is different—but if he hits a few on this list your period of agonizing anticipation is almost over.

6 Clues He's Getting Ready To Say the "L" Word


He Communicates Frequently

When a man loves a woman, he can't get enough of her. When he's not seeing her, he will be texting, calling, emailing, anything he can do to keep in touch.

And response times to you? They'll be short. He'll be checking his phone and email frequently to see if he's heard from you. And if he has, he'll respond promptly to keep the conversation flowing.


He Tells You Intimate Things

Although many men have a difficult time opening up about serious issues, memories, or experiences, the man who loves you will feel comfortable enough to reach this vulnerable position with you.

If this happens on the first date, this is not love.

If this begins to happen three to six months into the relationship, then he is definitely falling in love with you. Examples of intimate things he may share with you will be details of a divorce or other painful breakup in his life, stories about his family and childhood, his life goals and his dreams.

If he talks about his mother specifically, and more than once or twice, don't worry, he doesn’t have mommy issues; he’s subconsciously letting you know that he wants to marry someone like her, and you might be it.


He Takes Risks With You

The men who love their women are the ones on the dance floor with them. They might not have a big smile on their face, but when they hit the floor it is because the woman they love has asked them to.

They will also express sudden excitement over other unusual things like skydiving, cooking classes, and trips to the library.

Taking risks is identified by anything he does that is out of his comfort zone where he risks feeling embarrassed or uneasy. If he’s said yes to going to the ballet on Christmas Eve, he is a smitten kitten.


He Treats You Like You Walk on Water

The contemporary colloquialism to this is being treated like a queen or princess.

If it seems like you can do nothing wrong, and he is going out of his way with gestures to protect you and to keep you safe from the mud puddles of the world, he is in love and is using gallant actions to display these feelings for you.


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He Starts Using the "L" Word in Random Conversation

When a man is ready to share his love, he will start using the word in conversation. In most cases he will not say the word TO her directly, the way she is hoping he will. But he will start to love everything else.

He will start signing emails Love, or start slipping it into conversation. “I would love to see you Thursday night.” Or “I love chili fries too!” or, if he is feeling more daring, “I love doing stuff with you!”

If you start hearing this word randomly crop up, the “L” word is on its way to you in exactly the way you want to hear it.


He Actually Says the Three Little Words

This may sound obvious, and it's not meant to be insulting, but many women don’t believe it when they finally hear the words. This is the truth!

Men don’t just throw "I love you" out there to get someone in bed.

When they say it, congratulations! They mean it. Don't second guess it, don't try to test him on it, just soak it up and enjoy it! You've been waiting for him to get here now don't mess it up with mind games you play with yourself.

Does He Love Me? Trust Your Heart of Hearts

When it comes to discovering whether or not a man really loves you, the phrase “actions speak louder than words” is the phrase that girlfriends falling in love should keep in mind. In a nutshell, you will know he loves you by the way he speaks and behaves in your presence, and even when you’re not around.

In most cases, we know in our heart of hearts how he feels, but women have this tendency to second-guess the feelings that are so clear. These tips are the little clues he is leaving to let you know how he feels. Letting him get there at his own pace will strengthen that love to the point where you’ll never question it again. 

If You're Still Wondering "Does He Love Me?"

If after all this you're still uncertain, watch this video and honestly answer the 7 questions relationship expert Michael Fiore will ask you >>

How to Know If a Man Really Loves You: 7 Simple Questions That Prove How He REALLY Feels.

Michael teaches a ton in this video (for free!) and reveals some pretty interesting insights into the male mind and how what you're doing could be sabotaging what you really want from him. Watch now before he decides to take it down or charge for what he's teaching!

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